I never really tend to take things at face value. Especially when it's other people's feelings.

People are fantastic.......they are complex and amazing. I love the whole psychology of life and really like to get into people's heads.

Sometimes I think I choose the wrong situations to do this.

For some reason, over the past couple of weeks, NoNoNoNo has been contacting me a lot more again. It's been great to hear from him, but, as I said before, I wouldn't get myself into that situation.

However, there was one point in our online chat last night that prompted him to ring me up to have a go at me and tell me that I'm too 'hard'!

NoNoNoNo: im falling for you

Me: no you're not! you're a bit drunk and falling for the idea of someone who isnt your wife, and I like you loads so I'm nice to you so that makes me an easy target for your misplaced affection

He didn't agree. I didn't agree with him.